Visualise Your way to Success – Can You Picture it?

Hey everyone, I trust you’re all well.  A bit of NLP for you this time; the other day, as I was driving home from a particularly upbeat training session, I got to thinking about how important imagery was to us…well, come on….there’s not much else to think about whilst driving on the motorway is there?  It’s all around us – imagery I mean (not boring motorways), and IMHO we can’t live without it.  Even words, if you think about it, are a form of imagery.  Where would my blogging be if I couldn’t fall back on images in the form of words and pictures?

It’s because imagery is so important to us that we can use it very effectively in the coaching world.  Imagery and visualising images is such an important tool that I can’t believe I haven’t written on it until now…Ooops!  I aim to remedy that right now with this blog, I hope you find it interesting…as always, please feel free to drop me a line if you’d like to discuss further – very competitive rates!  LoL.

So, what is visualisation?  I’m glad you asked that – visualisation is generally considered to be any technique that creates images, diagrams, pictures or animations to communicate a message.

Visualisation through imagery has been used to communicate ideas since the beginning of man (and that’s way before I was born).  We all know of cave paintings, Egyptian hieroglyphs, Greek geometry and the list goes on.  Visualisation nowadays gets into the worlds of science, education, engineering and even interactive computer based multimedia.

The cool bit is that those images or those pictures don’t necessarily only have to live outside in the world around us; they can live inside our own minds too.  Sounds kind of obvious huh? Well, it is really; we all picture things much of the time – we even do it when we’re asleep.  So, why don’t more of us know how to control these images?  Why aren’t more of us visualising the things we want more often?  Well, maybe because I haven’t written a blog on it until now!! (Here I go again!).

Ok, so now I’ve rambled on too long.  Wouldn’t you like to know how to expand your ability to visualise?  Wouldn’t you like someone to provide you with some easy steps so that your powers of visualisation increase almost overnight?  Do you want to know how?  Ok, ok I’ll get on with it:

There are 4 real parts of visualisation that I’ve outlined.  You can learn and practice them whenever you like really, but as soon as you start I can guarantee that you’ll see things differently (See what I did there?).

1.    How Often?

Frequency – The first aspect of visualisation is frequency.  This is number of times that you visualise yourself performing in an excellent way.  Just the same way as, if you beat yourself up too often you’ll end up believing it, the opposite applies too (cool huh?).  The more frequently you repeat a clear mental picture of your very best performance or result, the more rapidly it will appear as part of your reality.

2.    How Long?

Duration – The second element of visualisation has to do with the length of time you can hold the picture in your mind each time you replay it.  If you’re really working at this, you might be able to hold a mental picture of yourself performing at your best for several minutes, or even longer. The longer you can hold your mental picture, the more deeply it will be impressed into your subconscious.

3.    How Clearly?

Vividness – This third element of visualisation has a direct relationship between how clearly you can see your goal in your mind and how quickly it transfers into your reality.  When you set a new goal for yourself, your image of this goal will probably have been vague or fuzzy, or even in black and white or grey…just not too clear at all. However, the more often you repeat it mentally, the clearer it becomes for you.  Have you ever witnessed this?  Try imagining the image as a TV picture…Huh?  What are you talking about Shaun?  Haha, relax…with a TV picture you can simply pick up the remote and alter any of the picture qualities whenever you wish…can’t you?  Well, the cool thing is that you can do this with your mental images too.  Just form the image of a contrast switch, a colour switch, a volume switch or any switch that you can control.  If your image appears in black and white simply adjust your colour switch, if the image is fuzzy simply adjust the contrast and so on…try it…it works!  Eventually, it will become crystal clear. At that point, the goal will suddenly appear in your world exactly as you imagined it.

4.    How Intensely?

Intensity – The fourth element of visualisation has to do with the amount of emotion you attach to your image.  Some people might argue that this is the most important and powerful part of the visualisation process. Sometimes, if your emotion is intense enough and your visual image is clear enough, you will immediately achieve it.

Watch out though, the whole process can help you or it can hurt you. Like nature, the power of visualisation is neutral.  It’s a double-edged sword so make sure you appreciate that it can cut in either direction.  Visualisation can either make you a success or make you a failure – like always, it’s up to you really. Visualisation brings you whatever you vividly and intensely imagine, whether good or bad.

Have fun with this, but first another word of warning – if you’re practicing this on the train make sure you know the person sitting opposite or those faces you’re pulling are going to attract more attention that you’d like.

Stay safe.

 

 

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Reframe Your Thinking – Metaphors – The Magical Bank

 

NLP offers many things to its followers and practitioners.  It’s all about expanding choices; wouldn’t you like to have more choices?

One way to expand thinking and to reveal other choices that might have been previously hidden from you is to think ‘differently’.  The process of reframing can be as complicated as you like, but essentially it’s about looking at things in a different way, it’s about taking yourself out and looking back into a situation as an observer…to be honest, it’s about lots of things that I’ll hopefully get around to writing about one day (hopefully).

Here’s a little metaphorical tool that I came across a long time ago and have used to great effect in many situations.  Continue reading

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Return on Expectations (ROE)

I haven’t written much on the L&D side for a while so I thought I’d put something together that dealt with one of the fundamentals of the L&D world.  This blog is designed for those L&D Professionals out there who have years of experience (us old ones) and those that are relatively new to the game (you keen ones).  We’re in a world of ‘weights and measures’, of squeezing ‘more bang for your buck’ and of accountability; Return On Expectations (ROE) is one of those measurements that, if done correctly, will keep those in the boardroom happy (well as happy as they’re ever going to be) by demonstrating the degree to which your training satisfies their expectations. Continue reading

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In Your Comfort Zone

We hear it all the time “Doh, I’m well out of my comfort zone” and “Oh my gosh, I can’t do that”. Do you know where your comfort zone is? How do you know? Truth is…you don’t know about them all… your comfort zones exists in a continual state of ‘bendiness’.

Haha, I can hear you all now, “Bendiness? That’s a new word, he’s finally tipped over the edge, Shaun – has officially – lost – it”.

I thought I’d explain a few things about comfort zones, Continue reading

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NLP – Noticing and paying attention to METAPHORS (Part 2)

Hey, welcome to the second of my Two-Part Series on Metaphors.  Part 1 – Isomorphic Metaphors and Storytelling, proved so popular I was inundated with so much positive feedback I had trouble keeping up.  I thought I’d kick off 2012 with Part 2.  I hope it’s equally as rewarding. 

People frequently use metaphors to describe how they feel and what they want.  As a coach, it’s all well and good knowing the theory behind things, but unless you practice, practice, practice the best you can ever hope to be is a book worm!  I think there are enough worms out there in the world, so what I’m going to do in this post is to develop your understanding of Continue reading

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NLP & Allergies

                                       

Hey everyone, I hope you’re well?  It’s a busy time for me, I’ve been away for a while and so I’ve been thinking of something special to write about so that I can make it up you.  So here goes…I hope you like it.

The NLP related articles I’ve written before have been very popular, so I’m going to talk a bit more on NLP this time too.  The NLP allergy cure is a closely guarded technique among NLP Practitioners out there.  I don’t know why some people protect information like this.  I like to share and believe in OPEN information to all.  

Huh?  I can hear you asking, “Why is Shaun writing about allergies?”  Well….if I told you that I’m one of the unlucky few people who suffer from Hayfever ALL YEAR ROUND, I need say no more.

After we look at what an allergy is, I’m going to outline an effective technique that will help those allergy sufferers out there.  The technique does Continue reading

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Beliefs and Hairdressing

As a busy performance coach, it’s inevitable at some stage in the relationship with my clients that we come up against beliefs.  It’s a massive subject area but there are those coaches out there who labour on it so much that those of you starting out in the coaching business might often feel daunted (come on you know you do, I was there too once).  I reckon it to be a bit like hairdressing… huh? … Hairdressing? Continue reading

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